Your Mindset For success
This is really where it all begins. We don’t want to get to “woo woo” on you, but the truth of the matter is, your mind, more specifically the thoughts you think and the way you feel about them are ultimately what determines your destiny.
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There is often a tendency when wanting to accomplish a goal to discard this subject as unimportant or merely frosting on the cake. To do so, is done at your peril. It’s that important.
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If you remember nothing else, remember this:
- How you think determines how you feel.
- How you feel determines how you act.
- How you act determines what happens to you… good or bad.
The one and only thing you have control over is your thoughts. You cannot think two thoughts at the same time. If we say “Red Elephant”, you cannot help but to think of it and nothing else.
You must choose (yes, we said choose) your thoughts as you would items you’d eat. You’re body probably likes things that are not good for it, sweets and fatty foods, rather than fresh vegetables but what must you feed on to be a champion? A strong body requires good fuel. Consider your thoughts and feelings to be fuel for your mind. Make no mistake you are competing and you are in a race; a race for success. To not compete, to not try is to lose the race. Do not decide on what your life will be and others will surely decide for you. You have the menu. Its in your hands, place your order.
Like attracts like. Think of everything as a magnet. You attract to you what you think and feel about. So if you want success, you MUST think of things that make you feel good, powerful, in control and successful.
This is where the laws of attraction and the effect of your attitude take place. To be a positive person and to expect good things are essential and to take action is critical to success.
So, where do you start? You start by what you put into your mind.
#1 NO News. We’d recommend you STOP listening to or reading the news. It is ALWAYS negative. Its the only thing they ever run. This is pollution for your mind and will take you to exactly where you don’t want to go. If they idea of not watching the news sounds odd, well them consider, success itself is odd as only 2-3 % of people, ever truly achieve it. Which group do you want to be in?
#2 Reading books. You need to associate yourself with people who have done great things. When you read books written by those who have what you have, who have been where you are and tell you how they did it, it inspires you. Their success rubs off on you. Its been said, if you could play basketball with Michael Jordan or Golf with Tiger Woods, you vastly improve you basketball or golf skills. Success is contagious. You just need to expose yourself to it.
#3 Listening to Audio’s. This and watching videos are the same as reading books. Hate to read? Well, here is your solution. Drive to a job? Why on earth would you waster your time listening to Elton John, Toby Keith, “Snoop Dog” or whoever when you can spend that time feeding your mind? You’re trapped in your car, so you might as well make it a University on Wheels and feed your mind while you’re in traffic.
Here is what’s gong to happen. You’re going to change. If you run, do sit-ups and push ups, you change. You look better. You feel better. Same here. People will notice. Your prospects will notice. Your outlook will change. Success will become automatic for you. You will instinctively make the right decisions in everything you do.
Next, “Think Backwards”. What do we mean by that? Consider the maze games that are in the newspaper or kids books. The ones where you trace you way from the outside in until you reach the center as your goal. Well, what if you, instead started from the middle, the goal that is, and traced your way back to the outside. Now that is a different perspective isn’t it? You already achieved your goal. There was no question “if” you’d achieve it.
So, in your biggest project, that is you, why not first consider your success. What does it look like, sound like, taste like feel like? Where do you live? What do you look like? What kind of relationship do you have with your children? With your spouse, with your family, friends and neighbors? How do you feel? Define all of this. To put it on paper is even better. Got it? That’s the center of the little “maze game”. You’ve already achieved it. You’ve made it. You’re living the life of your dreams.
Lastly, notice and Give Appreciation to everything you have.
Are you where you want to be? Of course not. Nothing wrong with you, if you’re not growing or dieing. You need desire in your life. So, instead of focusing on what you do not have, focus on every aspect of what you DO have. Remember the MyInternetBusiness movie. You already have so much more than nearly everyone on the planet if you are reading this. Give thanks for your health. Give thanks for your family, for your home, your car, you spouse, your children and yes, even you’re job that you despise. (there is a clue there).
You will find you will be given more as you show appreciation and good stewardship over what you have been given. If you are a parent, you know exactly what we mean by this. So, we’ll suggest this. Actively, out loud (to your self) talk about what you appreciate. Feel it. Yes, this is “woo woo” but its important. Make a game of how many things you can possibly show appreciation for? Here’s a challenge. We challenge you, here and now, to make a list, right now, of 100 things you are honestly, earnestly, appreciative of. Go ahead, make that list …right now.
If you followed instructions and you have that list, then proceed. If you haven’t done it, then ask yourself why? Is this maybe something that holds you up?
Have your list? Good. Now, read each item, out loud with feeling.
We’re going to assume you’ve done this now. If that’s the case, its impossible that you do not feel better. Guess what? You are now far more in line to have success in ALL areas of your life, right this moment than you were before. And … that means in MyInternetBusiness too! Yes, this DOES translate to dollars in your bank account. Remember, its these kinds of things that everyone who is successful does. In fact, they think about these things all day long. That’s why, they expect success! Its automatic for them and it can be for you too!
Now, lets apply this to prospecting and goals. Break your goals down into components. What do you want? How about paying customers who buy your products from you, join your team and go crazy marketing? That’s a good thing, right? Of course, so lets break it down. What are the components of the ideal prospect?
The ideal prospect is one that:
1) Opts into your page.
2) They give good information.
3) They watch the tour
4) The request more information
5) They commit to buying
6) They follow through with their commitment and send you money for their purchase
7) They start marketing themselves
They bring many more customers, of which you create a passive income from.
That’s quite a bit, right? Well, instead of thinking of all or nothing, why not give thanks to yourself, with emotion, for each and every step of the process. Say to yourself out loud when someone opts into your site, “I LOVE having people opt into my site”. If their information is good, then say “I LOVE when they give accurate information”. Do this all the way through the process until you have every prospect scored … 1 through 8. Focus on what you have, not on what you do not. Make a game of it; tell yourself you are getting better as each prospect is closer and closer to what you want. Finally, what you will see is it will be easy to attract, yes attract, prospects to you that meet all of the 8 criteria above! It’s easy for you!
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Posted by peter on November 22nd, 2008 filed in 10 keys to success | Comment now »



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